I used to think … if only there was a magic button to press, ‘ding!’, and they could step off the ‘bus of busy life’, pause, grab a cuppa and talk through their issues with someone confidentially, with no judgment, and reset themselves for a bigger, brighter future.
Allowing others to control you is a subconscious habit.
I have found creativity and resourcefulness incredibly powerful in terms of staying my own path. I have drawn on them the most I’ve ever done, in writing my memoir and guidebook on the societal taboo of childhood sexual abuse. They have been the basis of my finding within me the gifts deep within me, that I needed to find, in order to heal from my own experience of childhood sexual abuse.
I partner with people to support them with smart business coaching and personal life coaching; and as a mentor and…
A lot of ‘I can’t’ comes from the belief ‘there’s not enough time’, ‘I’m so busy’, ‘there’s so much to do’. Hand on your heart, is this completely honest, if you’re recognising here that you ‘can’t’ more than you ‘can’.